You're only seeing what's on the surface of her Have enough people told you to run. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays. Good luck with her, and good life to you. But, when you're married to a doctor, know that doctors don't sacrifice for their marriages. Warnings While the LDS Church accepts that those who feel attraction to members of their own sex can be Mormons, it discourages acting on those feelings. But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. I would do it all over again and thank my lucky stars that I found this man, that he loves, and that I love him. And as an outsider it will be obvious to you what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - we will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and something that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. You need to repent and change.
Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. Loneliness seems to be a part of being a wife of a doc in training, and at times all I can think of is simply getting over a day at a time.
And if you can make it to the Tree of Life and still be with your partner, guess what. I am really in love with him. I am a non Mormon. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. But I do still largely consider us an interfaith couple. It would behoove you in this situation to act like a kid yourself. First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. He states that if he is making such a tremendously better income, it would be selfish of me to put our children in daycare in the future so I can work.
Some exceptions and valid reasons do exist for divorce but self righteousness is not on of them. I would find it therapeutic to type out all of my feelings and at the same time he would get an update. Communication is crucial, and even if we don't see each other for several days at a time, it's important to be on the same page. I told him that this wasn't working for me. Controlling Behavior in Relationships. Joint Accredited with multiple accreditations, including:. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him.